Regrets
I have always thought of people who say “I have no regrets” as liars or diluted in some way. I guess because I am a hard headed learner, I have to run head on into a bad situation, apply a bad decision and analyze my bad results in order to learn. So needless to say, this method of learning creates numerable regrets. I have special regrets, regrets I am grateful for and regrets I regret having…
Recently, upon confessing a regret, a wise person said to me: there are times when we forgive others even when they don’t ask or deserve our forgiveness, there is also a time when we must forgive ourselves in the same way.
So, I forgive myself for my regrets, but regretable, I still regret certain things, but there is value in it and it is this: I don’t want to do that again to another person and most of all I do not want to do that again to myself. 
